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The Best Of - The Dip by Seth Godin

The Dip’s Big Idea

Don’t be afraid to quit the wrong stuff and have the conviction to stick with the right stuff.

On Being the Best

• Vanilla is far and away the top ice cream flavor – 22% of all sales, (Chocolate is 8%)
• The top movie of the week usually has 2x the ticket sales of the 2nd movie
• Being the best in the world matters – no one wants an average product or service
• Yet it’s easier to be the best in something than ever before – so many micro niche markets exist today
• Jack Welch and GE – part of the transformation was making only #1 or #2 acceptable
• Superstars – agents, dealmakers, artists, etc, get way more than everyone else, because they are the best
• Average is for Losers – quit or be exceptional – those are the only two choices

On the Dip

• The Dip is the hard part, the “moat” the prevents most people from being the best
• The Dip is organic chemistry, law school, agent rejections, the last few pushups
• Successful people don’t just “just ride out the Dip…They lean into it, changing the rules as they go”
• If it is worth doing, there is probably a Dip
• Woopeckers don’t diversify – they peck one tree 22,000 times to get dinner
• Men’s Health cover models pushed through the Dip to get washboard abs
• Being mediocre sucks – and so many people and organizations have simply settled for this
• 8 Dips – manufacturing on a larger scale, growing a sales team, getting more education, taking a risk to venture big, investing in a longterm relationship, giving up ego/control, reshaping one’s worldview, and getting your product into better distribution channels like Walmart.
• The space shuttle is not a Dip, it’s a cul-de-sac, because it’s going nowhere and NASA needs to drop it

Further Advice

• Market acceptance is a big Dip, but worth pushing through
• There is a difference between quitting a tactic (action or behavior) versus quitting a strategy (or long-term goal/outcome)
• Don’t quit in the Dip – push through short-term pain by visualizing the great long-term results – AKA no one quits the Boston Marathon at mile 25
• “Never Quit “– this is a terrible piece of advice
• “Don’t quit something with great long-term potential because of the stress of the moment” - much better advice!
• Michael Crighton quit medicine after graduating Harvard Med and doing a prestigious fellowship. If he can quit – so can you.
• Before quiting ask yourself
  1) Am I just panicking, scared or hurting? All three are bad reasons to quit.
  2) Who am I trying to Influence? A single person is hard to bring around, but a market is almost always climbable.
  3) Am I making measurable progress? As long as you are making some forward progress, there is hope.

Final Thoughts

• You are astonishing – how dare you waste it on half-assed efforts.
• Quit mediocre things and use that additional energy, time and resources to assault the Dip that really matters. Make a dent in the universe.
  
• It’s almost impossible to over-invest in becoming the market leader.
  
• Last page:
  “All are successes are the same. All our failures too.
  We succeed when we do something remarkable
  We fail when we give up too soon
  We succeed when we are the best in the world at what we do.

Fourth of July

Celebrated the Fourth of July in San Jose, ate burgers, walked to downtown to watch Fireworks. I saw a sea of different faces - Mexicans, Asians, Blacks, Whites, the elderly, infants, kids, teens, adults. I also saw a lot of digital cameras and video cams.

As I watched the fireworks, I kept thinking - I wonder if the Founding Fathers had thought that America would turn out in such a big way - a superpower and a superpolluter that the world watches with a mixture of annoyance, fear, awe and envy

As Tom Peters says, America was the result of a crazy experiment by a  “tiny band of “insaniacs” (later called “Founding Fathers”)”. I wonder how many of the people around me were thinking about what this country really means and what it stands for.

Perhaps more people need to be reading The True Patriot - which is just a fantastic and succint book on what it means love your country. Which I certainly do. America has provided so many incredible opportunities for me to live the life I create for myself.