276: Don't Be a Hungry Ghost
Achieving your biggest goal often doesn't feel the way you expected. Jason Shen explores the 'hungry ghost' trap of endless achievement and why arrival rarely brings satisfaction.
Jason Shen
The Outlier Coach—helping founders build companies they can be proud of with partners who truly have their back · 3x venture-backed startup founder (acq by FB) · Author of 'The Path to Pivot' & 'Weirdly Brilliant' · ADHD · Former NCAA gymnast
275: Winner's Mindset
A winner's mindset isn't about talent — it's a specific set of mental skills. Jason Shen breaks down research on mental toughness in athletes and entrepreneurs and how to develop it.
274: From Zero to Unicorn
How Gamma went from a non-AI presentation tool to a Forbes Next Billion Dollar Startup by pivoting around large language models — while staying lean and profitable.
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273: Take Pride [Book Notes]
Pride isn't vanity — it's a powerful motivator. Jason Shen shares notes from Dr. Jessica Tracy's research on how two types of pride drive human achievement, innovation, and competition.
272: Evaluating Judgment
Good leaders must distinguish between different judgment and bad judgment — the difference determines whether a disagreement strengthens or destroys an organization.
271: Manhood & Fatherhood
Becoming a father stirred something unexpected — a positive sense of masculinity. Jason Shen reflects on how involved parenting challenges traditional masculine ideology while feeling deeply masculine.
270: Make the Case
Smart professionals struggle to get buy-in because they frame their value wrong. Jason Shen shares a coaching framework for making a compelling business case — whether for a promotion, product, or service.
269: The New Thirty (From Full to None)
Thirty-year-olds today face a radically different reality than a generation ago. Jason Shen explores what he calls 'The Full House Fallacy' and the forces reshaping modern adulthood.
268: Validation is a Relationship Superskill
Validation is the skill of making people feel seen, heard, and understood. This skill is the next frontier of psychological methods after cognitive behavioral therapy, and can be a superpower for building trust in any relationship.
267: Snake Oil
The most capable people often struggle most with self-promotion. Jason Shen reframes the fear of being a 'snake oil salesman' by exploring the surprising history of actual snake oil.
266: Making a Real Difference
Most nonprofits focus on feeling good or looking good rather than doing good. Jason Shen explains why a theory of change matters for anyone trying to create lasting impact.
265: What's the Point?
When ambitious people lose their sense of purpose — whether from struggle or success — things go sideways fast. Jason Shen shares two coaching stories about rediscovering what matters.