Kevin Gao’s 6 Rules of Well-Being
My friend Kevin Gao is the founder and CEO of Hyperink, a YC-backed digital publishing company. He recently shared his findings of 6 “rules” (my term, not his) from reviewing 3 years of monthly data tracking his well-being from a variety of metrics. I thought this was a really cool idea and wanted to share it with you.
Here’s the post (reprinted with permission):
I’ll retype his answer here (with some basic formatting/punctuation added)
Kevin’s 6 “Rules” of Well Being
So for the last 3 years I’ve kept a monthly scorecard of how I do (and how I feel) on a variety of things like health, sleep, family, etc. Just reviewed all of it and here are the 5 main conclusions I came to, thought it was amusing to share!
- Don’t sleep past 9am (for some reason my days just get out of whack when I sleep late)
- Run more, even if just 15 min/day
- Call mom more (right now its usually once/week but when i talk to her more often in a week i feel a lot better)
- Meditate more, even if just 5 min/day (can’t handle a lot more)
- Stop binge drinking (which according to wikipedia is 5 drinks a night!!…ruins my next day)
- Take more weekend trips
Later in the comments he elaborates on the system:
“I got it from stevepavlina.com, he basically lists a bunch of categories and then every month, rates himself 1-10 on each and writes a few notes. Track through Google Doc”
What can we learn from Kevin’s rules?
First there are the rules themselves: clear, easy and actionable.
It’s easy to look at them and go “Duh! If you exercise more and avoid binge drinking, of course you’ll feel better.” On the other hand, how hard is it to get ourselves to do run a little every day when we feel lazy?
But still, keeping a regular sleep schedule, exercising a little, staying in touch with family, being mindful, avoiding harmful substances and decompressing more frequently are things most of us could stand to keep in mind.
But more importantly is the system. Do you track what makes you happy?
I already do a lot of reflection (daily journal, weekly blog posts, quarterly newsletters) but I’m considering adding this habit because even a 1% improvement over the 480 waking hours a month would be worth 20 mins of reflection.
I found this post on Steve Pavlina’s blog which might be a good place to start.
Do any of you track your well-being? What have you learned?