That’s it people. You’ve figured it all out. You now truly know who you really are.
The truth is, it’s never really over. I’ve just gotten you started on a path that will last the rest of your life. You never truly “find yourself”.
The last post was about being honest, and expressing your true self. Knowledge is useless if it’s not used. In this case, you have self-knowledge that you are obligated, that you need to express honesty. You cannot hide it or just settle. Never settle.
http://www.paulgraham.com/love.html – conceptual, more idea based
http://chronicle.com/jobs/2002/11/2002110401c.htm – more practical nitty gritty job based research
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